Are couples therapists supposed to be neutral at all times?
In family or couples therapy or group therapy, I’m constantly supporting one or another person in saying what they need to say from one moment to the next, coaching, affirming, questioning, and reframing.
In marriage therapy, how would you help someone “click” with their spouse again after years of mostly marital apathy?
You can learn to develop curiosity about practically anything if it’s important to someone you love, even after “years of mostly marital apathy.”