How many appointments does it take to know if a therapist is a good fit?
Unlike dating, therapy is a relationship for a carefully managed, well-boundaried single hour every week or so, with a person who’s trained and who has experience in doing what they’re doing, probably for thousands of hours, without getting into too much trouble.
Do people cry in front of their therapists?
They often do, and they should, and it’s a good thing... There’s just about no better place in the world than a therapy office, where you don’t have to hold back tears or any expressions of feelings, because you have this special, highly private relationship with another human who is fully there for you, and you see only for that 50 minutes, once a week or so.
Are young kids too young for therapy if they don’t really understand mental health?
We saw kids four and up, many of them victims of abuse and neglect, long term. Other kids came as part of family therapy, and still other had various issues that concerned their parents or professionals.